After All, I Realized...The Other Side

The more I experience pain and aloneness,

The more I learn to love myself,

Appreciate and accept it wholly, for no one will do it except you very self.

I realized that not all relationships work out and

Sometimes, You have to stop it for your own sake and or to the other,

That not all people will listen and

Understand you the way you understand yourself,

That you don’t always need to push and

Force yourself to others who are not capable of giving their time to be with you,

That not all people could be your friend.

For others remain, strangers, as they are from the beginning,

Therefore, move on and do not stop living,

People come and go; others stay, others leave,

But this must not hinder you from continuing relating with those people

Who is willing to relate with you without return,

Do not be bias to yourself, knowing that not all people can love you back

The way you love them doesn’t mean you will cease loving those people

Who are committed to loving you back,

Knowing that not all people will understand you

This does not mean you will isolate yourself and

Push others away too because they can’t understand you,

Instead, just let them be because later on,

Maybe not now; they will also be able to get even a glimpse of your personality.

That will change their totality, especially their perception of you.

Do not stop loving and living.

People who ignore you will never be worthy of losing you.

They may not be worthy of love.

But they must not be the reason for wasting your time,

Losing your weight, crying out all night and rejecting your life and

Even losing your faith in God.

Despite they are committed to misunderstanding you,

They are not destined to destroy you,

Instead, think of the positive outcome that happened to you now,

Right now, you are now able to see yourself despite alone

But can stand on your own,

You became stronger as you are, without depending on others,

You were able to examine and process yourself:

Your negative and positive experiences through them,

Despite there’s a negative experience,

A heartbreaking, painful experience as if no one can anymore heal and

Nothing and no one can even heal the pain, accept it and own it,

It is only through it you will be able to become stronger and free again,

And later on, a whole person ready to face the world again

smiling on both people who loved and hurt you,

Facing your friends and those who betrayed you and lost your trust.

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